May182011
7AM

Handjob techniques for my “annonimous” friend below

7AM

Anonymous said: my girl is lacking in the area of making me cum....mostly on handjobs.....what can she do or are there any techniquies to speed up that process and or make it better....

First and foremost, don’t just lie there saying to yourself “cum cum cum”. If you do, you won’t. 

Below is a listing of hand job techniques, mostly gathered from alt.sex.faq. Although not necessary, it is better to perform these using a lubricant.

Pressure

With one hand, pull the shaft’s skin toward the base and wrap the fingers of this hand around the base to act as a cock ring. Using the other hand, rhythmically pick various points along the shaft of the penis and squeeze opposite sides of the penile shaft at these points, releasing pressure either immediately or after only a brief period of time.

Fire

Rub the penis between both palms, as if rubbing two sticks together to create fire. Be sure to use plenty of oil.

Glans Head Massage

Hold the penis in one hand with the head sticking up. Using the well-oiled palm of your other hand, slowly and sensitively massage the glans head. Reverse directions every once in a while.

Healing Stroke

With the penis resting on the man’s stomach, take one hand and cup the testicles. Then glide the heel of the palm of the other hand up and down the underside of the penis.

Twist and Shout

Pull the skin of the penis toward the base with one hand. With the other hand, corkscrew the penis. This can be done with the thumb and first finger or with your entire grip.

Anvil Stroke

Start with one hand lightly grasping the top of the penis. Then stroke the penis from the top, all the way to the bottom. When you hit the bottom, release the penis. Meanwhile, bring your other hand to the top of the penis and repeat.

Bookends

Place both of your hands side by side against his shaft like a pair of bookends. Now push hard against his penis. Then lift your hands up and down.

Doorknob

Turn the head of his penis like you’re trying to open an oily doorknob. Now try turning the other way. Repeat. This stroke is sometimes improved by using the other hand to stretch the skin of the penis toward the base.

Double Whammy

Bring your well lubricated hands down on his shaft. Some penises are so big they require both hands; if your partner’s doesn’t, then use the other hand to caress and lightly flutter his testicles, or tighten around the base of his shaft. If both hands fit along the length of the shaft then move them together, up and down, in the typical pumping motion. Pretend you’re holding a baseball bat and are about to score a grand slam. You can also vary the directions of your hands: one up, one down at the same time.

Milking

Start with one hand lightly grasping the bottom of the penis. Then stroke the penis from the bottom all the way to the top. When you hit the top, release the penis. Meanwhile, bring your other hand to the bottom of the penis and repeat.

Perpetual Penetration

Start with one hand lightly grasping the top of the penis. Then stroke the penis from the top all the way to the bottom, letting his penis “penetrate” into your fist on each stroke. Before the head of his penis pops out of your hand, bring the other hand up for the next penetration. This way it seems to him like he is penetrating deeper and deeper into an infinite vagina. Make sure you keep the penetration continuous.

Ring

Make a ring with your thumb and forefinger and pump up and down with it. When you get to the top close the ring. Then make him squeeze his way in as you slide back down to the bottom.

Shaft

Stroke only his shaft, ignoring his glans head. You will notice his glans head swelling and turning red. When it’s bright red, use Doorknob, Glans Head Massage, or Perpetual Penetration.

Shuttle Penis

Take the penis in both hands, fingers lightly touching the sides of the shaft. Now flick the penis back and forth between your two hands by holding onto the loose skin of the shaft. Do this stroke for a while to allow tension to build.

Spot Pinch

Lightly and slowly run a finger up the underside of his penis. Ask him to tell you where the most sensitive spot is. Pinch, squeeze, nibble and tease that spot.

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CAN A MAN HAVE “TOO MUCH SEX”?
How Much Sex Is Too Much? The theories of Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM) warn that a man who  engages in too much sex can become what is known as “kidney jing  deficient.” Jing is a term that refers to the body’s essential fluids,  distilled by the kidneys from what we eat and drink. The kidneys are  thought of as the body’s “batteries” and the place where jing is stored.  Chinese health theory suggests we are actually equipped with enough  jing (life essence) to live 120 years. The problem is we exhaust this  essence through poor diet, lack of rest, lack of exercise, the effects  of stress, disease and… an unhealthy amount of sex.
Signs and symptoms of kidney jing deficiency include a weakening  of the bones, hair loss, a graying of facial color, loosening or loss of  teeth, soreness in the lower back, weakness of the legs (particularly  behind the knees), poor memory, loss of libido, impotence and a general  lack of sexual desire. If you are suffering from any of these signs and  symptoms, perhaps you should consider if too much sex is killing you… or  at least weakening you.  With too frequent ejaculation, jing (semen, the essence of pure fluids  and life energy) is depleted from the body. Moreover, as a man passes  middle age, the excessive loss of jing can cause the disastrous effects  described above. Like contact sports, sex is a young man’s game.
Middle  aged and older men need to retain their jing (semen essence) and  ejaculate less frequently. (There is an entire art in Yogic and Taoist  traditions of men learning to come to orgasm while not releasing a  single drop of semen. (More on this in another article)  Two-thousand years ago Su Nu Jing, the classic text on TCM, was  published. It advised how much sex/ejaculations are safe for a man to  have. For example, a healthy 20-year-old can ejaculate twice per day  with no adverse effects. Also, to maintain proper health, the 20-year-old should have a minimum of one ejaculation every four days. The average 20-year-old male who is engaging in masturbation three times a day is probably overdoing it.
This could possibly affect his grades (poor memory) or affect his tennis match (with weak knees and sore low back).
If you are a 40-year-old executive thinking of having that affair  with the 24-year old-intern, you might want to consider if you are in  good enough health to survive an extramarital affair.
You could  wind up suffering from hair loss, aging of the face, low back soreness,  weak legs, poor memory, loss of libido, impotence and lack of sexual  desire that could cost you your career and your health… not to mention  your marriage (if applicable).
How Much Sex Is Too Little?
Keep in mind that no sex at all is unhealthy. Psychologically, it can cause resentment, depression and anxiety.
Sex is important for relationships,  not just emotionally, but for the organ systems as well. Ladies, when  men tell you they feel like they are dying from lack of sex, it’s  partially true. In reality, the choked up emotions and lack of  connection can cause him to suffer what is known in TCM as liver qi  stagnation.
According to TCM theory, the liver functions to move the qi (life  energy) freely in the body. So, liver qi stagnation is a pathogenic  flow of qi manifesting in some of the following signs and symptoms:  feeling of distension in the chest and hypochondrium, sighing, hiccup,  melancholy, depression, moodiness, unhappiness and feeling of a lump in  the throat. Often the etiology of this syndrome includes emotional  problems, a state of anger, frustration and/or resentment.
If this condition persists it can grow into what is called liver  fire. The signs and symptoms associated with live fire include  irritability, anger, shouting, ringing in the ears, temporal headache,  bitter taste in the mouth, dream disturbed sleep, a red face and red  eyes. This is the result of long-standing emotional states of anger,  resentment or frustration. This can cause problems like high blood  pressure, tinnitus, insomnia, migraine headache and the like.
Good sexual relations are a part of good health. Overdoing it can be detrimental to health, and so can too little of it.
Be happy and be wise in the ways of lovemaking.

ONE MORE BEAUTIFUL PICTURE
http://www.imagebam.com/image/8ac35a128096150

CAN A MAN HAVE “TOO MUCH SEX”?

How Much Sex Is Too Much? The theories of Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM) warn that a man who engages in too much sex can become what is known as “kidney jing deficient.” Jing is a term that refers to the body’s essential fluids, distilled by the kidneys from what we eat and drink. The kidneys are thought of as the body’s “batteries” and the place where jing is stored. Chinese health theory suggests we are actually equipped with enough jing (life essence) to live 120 years. The problem is we exhaust this essence through poor diet, lack of rest, lack of exercise, the effects of stress, disease and… an unhealthy amount of sex.

Signs and symptoms of kidney jing deficiency include a weakening of the bones, hair loss, a graying of facial color, loosening or loss of teeth, soreness in the lower back, weakness of the legs (particularly behind the knees), poor memory, loss of libido, impotence and a general lack of sexual desire. If you are suffering from any of these signs and symptoms, perhaps you should consider if too much sex is killing you… or at least weakening you. With too frequent ejaculation, jing (semen, the essence of pure fluids and life energy) is depleted from the body. Moreover, as a man passes middle age, the excessive loss of jing can cause the disastrous effects described above. Like contact sports, sex is a young man’s game.

Middle aged and older men need to retain their jing (semen essence) and ejaculate less frequently. (There is an entire art in Yogic and Taoist traditions of men learning to come to orgasm while not releasing a single drop of semen. (More on this in another article) Two-thousand years ago Su Nu Jing, the classic text on TCM, was published. It advised how much sex/ejaculations are safe for a man to have. For example, a healthy 20-year-old can ejaculate twice per day with no adverse effects. Also, to maintain proper health, the 20-year-old should have a minimum of one ejaculation every four days. The average 20-year-old male who is engaging in masturbation three times a day is probably overdoing it.

This could possibly affect his grades (poor memory) or affect his tennis match (with weak knees and sore low back).

If you are a 40-year-old executive thinking of having that affair with the 24-year old-intern, you might want to consider if you are in good enough health to survive an extramarital affair.

You could wind up suffering from hair loss, aging of the face, low back soreness, weak legs, poor memory, loss of libido, impotence and lack of sexual desire that could cost you your career and your health… not to mention your marriage (if applicable).

How Much Sex Is Too Little?

Keep in mind that no sex at all is unhealthy. Psychologically, it can cause resentment, depression and anxiety.

Sex is important for relationships, not just emotionally, but for the organ systems as well. Ladies, when men tell you they feel like they are dying from lack of sex, it’s partially true. In reality, the choked up emotions and lack of connection can cause him to suffer what is known in TCM as liver qi stagnation.

According to TCM theory, the liver functions to move the qi (life energy) freely in the body. So, liver qi stagnation is a pathogenic flow of qi manifesting in some of the following signs and symptoms: feeling of distension in the chest and hypochondrium, sighing, hiccup, melancholy, depression, moodiness, unhappiness and feeling of a lump in the throat. Often the etiology of this syndrome includes emotional problems, a state of anger, frustration and/or resentment.

If this condition persists it can grow into what is called liver fire. The signs and symptoms associated with live fire include irritability, anger, shouting, ringing in the ears, temporal headache, bitter taste in the mouth, dream disturbed sleep, a red face and red eyes. This is the result of long-standing emotional states of anger, resentment or frustration. This can cause problems like high blood pressure, tinnitus, insomnia, migraine headache and the like.

Good sexual relations are a part of good health. Overdoing it can be detrimental to health, and so can too little of it.

Be happy and be wise in the ways of lovemaking.

ONE MORE BEAUTIFUL PICTURE

http://www.imagebam.com/image/8ac35a128096150

9AM
From what age do boys have erections? 
Even baby boys get erections. It is an involuntary, normal part of development and happens all through life. In fact, ultra-sound images show boys have erections even inside their mother’s womb!
Boys start noticing their genitals and the feelings that can be obtained from them in toddlerhood. Depending on the sexual maturity of the boy, self-stimulation to cause deliberate erections can start anytime in childhood. For uncircumcised boys, doctors teach mothers to stimulate their sons to have erections so the foreskin gets “massage-trained” - not forcing it to retract as in some cases it does not “detach” until puberty.
It is at adolesence, generally from the age of 10-12, that erections become regular occurances and masturbation becomes normal.
Ejaculation is generally not possible until the boy is a little bit further into puberty, however boys who are still uncapable of producing sperm do have the so called “dry-orgasm”, in which the body prepares itself for ejaculation: all steps are there, erection, feelings and contractions, just that sperm does not come out! 
This is the amazing world of the Male Sex Organ!

From what age do boys have erections?

Even baby boys get erections. It is an involuntary, normal part of development and happens all through life. In fact, ultra-sound images show boys have erections even inside their mother’s womb!

Boys start noticing their genitals and the feelings that can be obtained from them in toddlerhood. Depending on the sexual maturity of the boy, self-stimulation to cause deliberate erections can start anytime in childhood. For uncircumcised boys, doctors teach mothers to stimulate their sons to have erections so the foreskin gets “massage-trained” - not forcing it to retract as in some cases it does not “detach” until puberty.

It is at adolesence, generally from the age of 10-12, that erections become regular occurances and masturbation becomes normal.

Ejaculation is generally not possible until the boy is a little bit further into puberty, however boys who are still uncapable of producing sperm do have the so called “dry-orgasm”, in which the body prepares itself for ejaculation: all steps are there, erection, feelings and contractions, just that sperm does not come out! 

This is the amazing world of the Male Sex Organ!

8AM

samsamsamthingking-deactivated2 said: i'm a boy....and why should i follow this? do you think i'm a girl? :-D reply on my TAB

If you are a boy, who am I to think you are a girl?! Look, sexuality is something both sexes live with!  Knowing your own anatomy is as important as knowing your partner’s. Sex is communication and the more free it is, the better. Being able to tell your partner what you like and what you feel is as important as listening to what the partner says.  You can certainly always learn something out of a blog like this.  So don’t be ashamed to follow this blog and you should get something useful when the time comes for you to be with your partner.

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