Is It Possible to Tell When a Man Is Ready to Ejaculate?
This is not something that is easy to understand as there are no direct answers. Different individuals have different ejaculation trends.
Researchers have actually broken ejaculation down in three different events: emission, ejaculation, and orgasm. In the first stage, what they call emission, there are some muscular contractions and the semen is pushed to the base of the urethra (the tube that both urine and ejaculate come out of at the tip of the penis). In the second stage, ejaculation, the semen is propelled out of the penis. The third stage, orgasm, is far less understood, and refers to a subjective experience that may or may not accompany the ejaculation.
The easiest way would be to ask the man to tell you when he is about to ejaculate (cum).
Anyway, here are some obvious signs that can help identify an “imminent ejaculation”.
1. Sudden change in breathing rate. There is heavy breathing and he appears to be panting, as if he has just completed some strenuous exercises.
2. There is sudden tension in his body. He grabs or holds you tightly, with intense jerking movements on his body, especially around his legs and waist areas.
3. His testicles appear to have ‘shrunk’ in size. This is due to ‘forward thrust’ experienced by the guy during ejaculation. Both testes and scrotum move up closer to the body.
4.- Pre-cum (a transparent liquid) may come out of the penis before actual ejaculation.
5. He closes his eyes and appears very focused on his main task. He might even ignore the environment for that split second.
Some guys are also unable to tell you when are they going to ejaculate, especially the younger ones who still haven’t ‘fully dominated’ the act and art of ejaculation.
For the guy himself, during ejaculation, he experiences a cloud-nine pleasure that is difficult to describe. The sudden tension is followed by relief and happiness, and he might also feel ‘tired’ for a moment after ejaculation. This is only temporary. With that, the penis returns to its flaccid position and the guy proceeds to do the ‘cleaning-up’ if the ejaculation came from masturbation. If it happens during actual hetero sexual intercourse, semen would be delivered well inside the girl’s vagina (or anus, or mouth).